Thursday, June 11, 2009

A man is what he thinks when he is alone...

A man is what he thinks when he is alone... Its not something i found out but i read it some where and i think its true. All the good and the bad is evolved from the heart of a man (I'm using 'man' for both genders). I have seen people asking me what i do when i am free or on weekends. I have never seen some one asking any one what do you "think" when you are free/alone. :) All of you must have heard the saying "An Idle mind is devils workshop"; I don't think that's entirely correct. It could be a God's workshop also. If you see around all the inventions of man would have born inside the mind when he was alone and while he was thinking.

I am not sure about what every one thinks when they are alone, but i have seen similar people like me who thinks about everything happening around and questions it inside the mind. I have found (as of now) similar thought process in some of the single children like me. Probably because they had lot of time free at the time of formation of thought process. I have taken some sample people to study, some of them (i would say most of them) just limit the thinking to about themselves and their beloved ones. Its perfectly normal scenario and is very human to do that. People should come out from that and should be sympathetic to each and everyone. Being sympathetic is a personal virtue. I value it as one of the building block of a good person, so i take a sympathetic person for granted. They can easily be empathetic and compassionate and be like God who loves unconditionally and voluntarily.

Love theories developed by John Lee are ...

Eros – a passionate physical and emotional love based on aesthetic enjoyment; stereotype of romantic love
Ludus – a love that is played as a game or sport; conquest
Storge – an affectionate love that slowly develops from friendship, based on similarity
Pragma – love that is driven by the head, not the heart; undemonstrative
Mania – highly volatile love; obsession; fueled by low self-esteem
Agape – selfless altruistic love; spiritual; motherly love

Agape is used to describe God's love. Its the Agape we are in short of.